EmpathyMattersđź’•

Brene Brown says that there is a big difference between empathy and sympathy. She says, “Empathy fuels connections, Sympathy drives disconnection”.  Theresa Wiseman, a nursing scholar, says that empathy is […]

Learned Behavior

“Manhood is a learned behavior” – a phrase I mutter a lot. Taking inventory of my 38 years of living, I can honestly say that I am only the man […]

INFIDELITY is a DIRTY word!

Keith Battle writes in his phenomenal book, Sidechickology: WHY MEN & WOMEN CHEAT, Understanding, Avoiding, & Recovering From Infidelity. He quotes: “57% of men and 54% of women admit to […]

Breathe

I was asked to be a M.O.T.M. StoryTeller. I was all for it…until I actually had to do it! Then I freaked out!I mean sweating, hyperventilating, mind went blank, tryna’ […]

Therapy is KEY to Disorder

I just heard a friend of mine who recently got married say that premarital counseling was the prerequisite to even deciding if he wanted to get married. Some people think […]

Relationship Status- Not Entangled

2020… A pandemic…  Killer bees…  Snow in May…  Racial Unrest…  I got a new job and relocated to a different state. If that was not enough, I am single. Not dating, not entangled, not […]

Crossroads

At some point on this journey you’ll hit a mark where you are in between, in between the version of yourself you want to be and that dusty version you […]

MOVING ON FROM THE Building: The Gen-X Perspective

Stockholm syndrome is a condition in which hostages develop a psychological alliance with their captors during captivity. Emotional bonds may be formed, between captors and captives, during intimate time together, […]

The Substitute Parent-Teacher

I was on the phone with a good guy friend the other day. We were doing our normal check in.  We often say something that we’re grateful for. I told […]