EmpathyMatters💕

Brene Brown says that there is a big difference between empathy and sympathy. She says, “Empathy fuels connections, Sympathy drives disconnection”. Theresa Wiseman, a nursing scholar, says that empathy is […]
Learned Behavior

“Manhood is a learned behavior” – a phrase I mutter a lot. Taking inventory of my 38 years of living, I can honestly say that I am only the man […]
INFIDELITY is a DIRTY word!

Keith Battle writes in his phenomenal book, Sidechickology: WHY MEN & WOMEN CHEAT, Understanding, Avoiding, & Recovering From Infidelity. He quotes: “57% of men and 54% of women admit to […]
Breathe

I was asked to be a M.O.T.M. StoryTeller. I was all for it…until I actually had to do it! Then I freaked out!I mean sweating, hyperventilating, mind went blank, tryna’ […]
Therapy is KEY to Disorder

I just heard a friend of mine who recently got married say that premarital counseling was the prerequisite to even deciding if he wanted to get married. Some people think […]
Relationship Status- Not Entangled

2020… A pandemic… Killer bees… Snow in May… Racial Unrest… I got a new job and relocated to a different state. If that was not enough, I am single. Not dating, not entangled, not […]
Crossroads

At some point on this journey you’ll hit a mark where you are in between, in between the version of yourself you want to be and that dusty version you […]
Still single… bought to you by the letter S and the number 1

Welcome back…glad you didn’t ghost me like most of the men I’ve dated. If you’re wondering, yes, I am still single brought to you by the letter S and the […]
MOVING ON FROM THE Building: The Gen-X Perspective

Stockholm syndrome is a condition in which hostages develop a psychological alliance with their captors during captivity. Emotional bonds may be formed, between captors and captives, during intimate time together, […]
The Substitute Parent-Teacher

I was on the phone with a good guy friend the other day. We were doing our normal check in. We often say something that we’re grateful for. I told […]